St Jude I have seen what you have done for others and beg you for help from endless depression over family problems. I was trying to help but my niece. your namesake, became offended when I asked her to help her invalid mother. I do not know what I did was wrong as she is elderly and I am in my 70s, but now I have alienated someone I love. My heart is broken as I have no children of my own and thought it would be okay to ask. She felt it was criticism. My apology was ignored. Please help us older women to get thru this crisis of health and loss.